The reason we all have sex is because it feels good; if it didn’t we wouldn’t do it. It takes two to have sex otherwise you are just masturbating and if so no need to even read this unless you plan at some point to introduce a partner to your activities.
Since there are two people involved you are no longer the only one seeking satisfaction. To be a good lover you must find out what it is that makes the other person feel good. It’s as simple as that. First you need a partner.
Just because they are the same sex doesn’t mean they want or like the same things you like.
No two people are alike regardless of gender. Take two women and they will both have completely different things that turn them on. One might enjoy her breasts fondled while the other doesn’t get any enjoyment from it.
The same goes for men. Some are turned on by nipple play while others have very little sensation in that area.
Don’t get ideas from porn.
There is nothing wrong with pornographic books or videos for the most part but unfortunately many get their ideas from watching them thinking that is normal love making.
For instance the feces fetish; I have no idea where that nonsense got started but I assure you most women, regardless of race, are not into it nor should they be. You can get all kinds of nasty diseases no matter how clean your hygiene is. It’s a bad idea. It’s called waste for a reason.
If you are looking for ideas, moves and positions, read books (not porn) or simply talk to your partner.
Communication
The best way to be a good lover is by talking to your lover and finding out what works. Unfortunately not all women or men are good at discussing such things. If your guy or girl is too shy to tell you what they want try texting, email, writing it down or if that doesn’t work just try listening to their feedback or pay attention to body language. Usually heavy breathing and moans means you are doing it right although it could also mean you are on their hair so it can be tricky if you have one that doesn’t give you a clue.
Part of being a good lover is telling your sweetheart what you like. If you don’t tell them, how will they know? They can’t read your mind.
Be compassionate
The worst lovers are selfish people. If you get into the moment and only think about your own desires and what you want, you won’t be a good lover. Making love is a give and take activity. Not all sessions will be evenly split but make sure that part of the time you are giving as well as taking. If you expect her to give you oral sex then you should be willing to perform cunnilingus as well.
Some women don’t like fellatio because of gagging and the taste of semen. Ask him if you can go only part way down and occasionally lick and stroke around the base instead of taking the whole penis in your mouth. If you don’t like the taste of his ejaculation and it’s not a big deal to him maybe he can pull out before he orgasms. Don’t forget his testicles. For most men some oral sex is better than none and they are willing to work with you on it but at least try.
It’s not about size
Contrary to what you read online and hear from friends most men don’t care if a woman has large breasts and most women aren’t concerned with the size of a guy’s penis.
We make love with more than just our endowments.
You can be a great lover no matter your size; it doesn’t matter.
Be adventurous
Don’t do anything you don’t feel comfortable with or is life threatening but be willing to try new things. You never know you might even find you enjoy it.
Madonna- Justify My Love:
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Friday, July 8, 2011
Pregnant Pole Dancing, Hot Female Anchor Women and X-Rated Picture Book
Here’s Christina Applegate showing pregnant women how to pole dance.
Here’s a blog that investigates sex scientifically or is that mathematically? I was never very good at either but here you go.
http://blog.okcupid.com/
Here’s the hottest female news anchors according to Maxim.
www.maxim.com/amg/girls/44100/tvs-10-hottest-news-anchors.html
Here’s an X rated picture book of where babies come from.
http://www.planetdan.net/pics/babies/2.htm
Calvin Harris- Humanthesizer:
Guys will do anything to get a bunch of women in bikinis.
Calvin Harris "Humanthesizer" by ultrarecords
Put Your Hands Up For Detroit:
Put Your Hands Up 4 Detroit / dir. S.MacKay-Smith by coodoo
Here’s a blog that investigates sex scientifically or is that mathematically? I was never very good at either but here you go.
http://blog.okcupid.com/
Here’s the hottest female news anchors according to Maxim.
www.maxim.com/amg/girls/44100/tvs-10-hottest-news-anchors.html
Here’s an X rated picture book of where babies come from.
http://www.planetdan.net/pics/babies/2.htm
Calvin Harris- Humanthesizer:
Guys will do anything to get a bunch of women in bikinis.
Calvin Harris "Humanthesizer" by ultrarecords
Put Your Hands Up For Detroit:
Put Your Hands Up 4 Detroit / dir. S.MacKay-Smith by coodoo
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Vaginal Size
Unlike men, women do have a certain degree of control over the size of their vagina. The vagina is made up of muscles that expand and contract, if she has exercised them they will be strong and can squeeze a penis of most sizes, if she hasn’t they can be very loose and the man may not be able to feel her walls. Women come in all sizes just like men: some big and some small.
Can you tell a woman’s size by looking at her?
To a certain extent you can, but just like a guy who is six foot tall isn't necessarily large in the genitals, a woman who is short won't always be tight.
Women with wider hips tend to have wider vaginal openings. Ladies with narrow hips tend to be on the smaller size. When I say hips I mean the bone structure and not fat, although fat can contribute to lax vaginal muscles. If she doesn’t exercise the rest of her body she probably doesn’t exercise her vagina either.
Race has a little to do with size but there are exceptions. For example Asian women tend to have more narrow hips (This varies by country.) and so they are usually smaller than other races. African decent women tend to have larger hips and therefore wider openings.
Caucasian women are usually somewhere in between but some are quite large and some very small depending on hip measurements.
Native American and Latina women are usually in between Asian and Caucasian depending on body structure: some are as small as Asian and some are as large as Caucasian.
However, the vagina can be stretched so if an Asian woman has had many larger partners and doesn’t exercise her vagina it can be loose. Not all African women have wide hips and if they use Kegel exercises they can strengthen their vagina to make it tighter.
The vagina after childbirth-
When a woman has a baby she has contractions caused by hormones that her body produces to widen the opening of the birth canal. After the baby is born her body returns to normal. For a few weeks she will be looser but with exercise she can return her muscles to their pre-baby tautness. Many women do not realize they can do Kegel exercises that will not only help her sexual pleasure but also keep her from having bladder leakage when laughing, sneezing or coughing.
The vagina after menopause-
Menopause is not as bad as many think or make it sound. For many it is liberating with little to no symptoms. She no longer has a menstrual cycle to work around and she doesn’t have to worry about pregnancy. There are hormonal changes but with diet and Kegel exercises she won’t notice much of a difference. Not all women experience dryness in fact some have an increased interest in sex causing them to be even more wet than before.
Kegel exercises will keep the blood flowing in the vagina, which will help with elasticity and keep up moisture production, which helps breed friendly bacteria. Friendly bacteria keeps away yeast infections.
Is stretching the vagina harmful?
The vagina is very elastic and depending on her bone structure can be stretched pretty far to accommodate most size men and some objects.
It isn’t a good idea to do this for many reasons but the biggest one being that when a woman’s birth canal is wider she is more susceptible to infection. When a woman is dilating to give birth doctors try not to let her go long in this state due to bacteria entering the canal causing complications. Stretching out the vagina is much the same and not a good idea.
Loose vaginal muscles cannot easily contain the contents of your bladder so you will more than likely have incontinence issues.
When your vagina is stretched out it is harder to contract the walls around a man or dildo for pleasure. If you only plan to insert large items for sexual gratification and never intend to have sex with a man or at least men of normal proportions then this wouldn’t be an issue for you but people change their minds and you never know how you will feel later on.
Can a woman be too small?
Yes. Most women can accommodate any normal size penis with enough foreplay and if she relaxes, but there are exceptions.
We are all made differently and have limits of how large a man we can take. Some women are quite small and could tear if a person isn’t careful. Most women can’t be expanded extremely wide without hormonal changes brought on by childbirth. Not all women can take really large men that’s why it’s not always a good idea for overly big guys to try to have sex with a small woman. You don’t want sex to be a painful or uncomfortable activity she avoids. Just because you can eventually get it in doesn’t mean it will be an enjoyable experience. There have been cases of women bleeding to death internally.
Men and women come in all sizes; we fit together like a hand in a glove but just like all mittens won't accommodate everyone, you need to find the person that fits emotionally, mentally as well as physically.
http://pamelanred.blogspot.com/2011/07/kegel-exercises-how-to-and-why-its.html
Can you tell a woman’s size by looking at her?
To a certain extent you can, but just like a guy who is six foot tall isn't necessarily large in the genitals, a woman who is short won't always be tight.
Women with wider hips tend to have wider vaginal openings. Ladies with narrow hips tend to be on the smaller size. When I say hips I mean the bone structure and not fat, although fat can contribute to lax vaginal muscles. If she doesn’t exercise the rest of her body she probably doesn’t exercise her vagina either.
Race has a little to do with size but there are exceptions. For example Asian women tend to have more narrow hips (This varies by country.) and so they are usually smaller than other races. African decent women tend to have larger hips and therefore wider openings.
Caucasian women are usually somewhere in between but some are quite large and some very small depending on hip measurements.
Native American and Latina women are usually in between Asian and Caucasian depending on body structure: some are as small as Asian and some are as large as Caucasian.
However, the vagina can be stretched so if an Asian woman has had many larger partners and doesn’t exercise her vagina it can be loose. Not all African women have wide hips and if they use Kegel exercises they can strengthen their vagina to make it tighter.
The vagina after childbirth-
When a woman has a baby she has contractions caused by hormones that her body produces to widen the opening of the birth canal. After the baby is born her body returns to normal. For a few weeks she will be looser but with exercise she can return her muscles to their pre-baby tautness. Many women do not realize they can do Kegel exercises that will not only help her sexual pleasure but also keep her from having bladder leakage when laughing, sneezing or coughing.
The vagina after menopause-
Menopause is not as bad as many think or make it sound. For many it is liberating with little to no symptoms. She no longer has a menstrual cycle to work around and she doesn’t have to worry about pregnancy. There are hormonal changes but with diet and Kegel exercises she won’t notice much of a difference. Not all women experience dryness in fact some have an increased interest in sex causing them to be even more wet than before.
Kegel exercises will keep the blood flowing in the vagina, which will help with elasticity and keep up moisture production, which helps breed friendly bacteria. Friendly bacteria keeps away yeast infections.
Is stretching the vagina harmful?
The vagina is very elastic and depending on her bone structure can be stretched pretty far to accommodate most size men and some objects.
It isn’t a good idea to do this for many reasons but the biggest one being that when a woman’s birth canal is wider she is more susceptible to infection. When a woman is dilating to give birth doctors try not to let her go long in this state due to bacteria entering the canal causing complications. Stretching out the vagina is much the same and not a good idea.
Loose vaginal muscles cannot easily contain the contents of your bladder so you will more than likely have incontinence issues.
When your vagina is stretched out it is harder to contract the walls around a man or dildo for pleasure. If you only plan to insert large items for sexual gratification and never intend to have sex with a man or at least men of normal proportions then this wouldn’t be an issue for you but people change their minds and you never know how you will feel later on.
Can a woman be too small?
Yes. Most women can accommodate any normal size penis with enough foreplay and if she relaxes, but there are exceptions.
We are all made differently and have limits of how large a man we can take. Some women are quite small and could tear if a person isn’t careful. Most women can’t be expanded extremely wide without hormonal changes brought on by childbirth. Not all women can take really large men that’s why it’s not always a good idea for overly big guys to try to have sex with a small woman. You don’t want sex to be a painful or uncomfortable activity she avoids. Just because you can eventually get it in doesn’t mean it will be an enjoyable experience. There have been cases of women bleeding to death internally.
Men and women come in all sizes; we fit together like a hand in a glove but just like all mittens won't accommodate everyone, you need to find the person that fits emotionally, mentally as well as physically.
http://pamelanred.blogspot.com/2011/07/kegel-exercises-how-to-and-why-its.html
Friday, July 1, 2011
What To Do If You Have A Small Penis
Thousands of men are self-conscious thinking they aren’t big enough in the trousers and look online for solutions to their dilemma. They think taking drugs, buying pumps or having surgery will help them.
First of all before you think of going under the knife you should do your research, look at pictures of the procedure before after and during surgery and talk to guys that have had it done. From what I’ve read it’s basically taking fat from other parts of your body and moving it to your penis. Fat can be absorbed and isn’t a permanent solution, it also doesn’t get hard in case you haven’t noticed. Taking a healthy part of your body and slicing it up doesn’t make sense to me.
Drugs, especially those found online, can be dangerous and you don’t want to put your health in danger trying to make your genitals bigger. Talk to a reputable physician before putting something harmful into your body.
So what do you do? For one thing you have to realize that most women are not that superficial. Yes, I realize women are more verbal about such things these days and some say all kinds of snide things about male genitalia but the size queens are few and far between they just have bigger mouths; they do not speak for all womankind.
Most men are average or below average; there aren’t enough big guys to go around. From what I’ve seen guys with large penises tend to have big egos to match and aren’t very nice people. Given the choice, I’d rather be with a great guy then a three-legged man.
There are many women who aren’t even that interested in sex so they certainly aren’t going to care. I’m not saying you have to give up sex, I’m just saying it’s not at the top of a lot of women’s priority list.
For many of us, the head on a man’s shoulders is much more important than the one between his legs. Women want a guy she can talk to. We don’t spend all of our time having sex and at some point you need a man who can carry an intelligent conversation.
It's not very common, but there is a phobia called phallaphobia: the fear of penises. If you have a small member these women may find you less threatening.
Lesbians don’t have a penis between them, they have sex and have been even before the invention of dildos. I realize a lesbian isn’t going to be interested in a man; I’m just giving you an example so you realize that a penis isn’t the only part of your anatomy used for sex.
A woman's most sensuous erogenous zone is her brain; if you stimulate her emotionally, make her feel sexy and good about her self you are halfway there.
Work on other techniques besides penetration and perhaps invest in sex toys. Many women enjoy oral sex; if you aren’t sure how to go about it or never tried it there are many books written on the subject. All women are different so experiment and you’ll find what works.
You don’t have to be rich either. There are dumb jokes circulating around about how a man must have a big endowment or checking account in order to attract a girl and that is wrong. The latest statistics show that many women are going for men who make less than they do. More women are going to college than men these days and they aren’t all going to find men who have bigger bank accounts. If you are only finding girls interested in how much money you make you need to find another location to look for dates. Those women aren’t worth knowing anyway.
Don’t watch porn. Men in porn are usually above average in size and watching those guys will just make you feel even less adequate. Find websites that only have nude women or at least amateur porn with regular sized fellows.
Don’t pick up women in bars. I’m not saying all women in clubs are bad but size queens tend to hang out there. You are better off looking for a decent girl who isn’t out trying on every guy in town and a bar isn’t the best place.
People who are only looking for another person based on their penis size or breast measurements are typically low class. Money doesn’t have anything to do with it; there are trashy rich people just like there are poor people with intelligence and morals. It doesn’t take very long to figure out which category a person fits into. Just walk away and ignore them. Trash should be left at the curb.
Don’t be afraid to date or take your clothes off. If you feel intimidated you can talk to her before hand. Tell her you aren’t as big as you would like and are nervous about her seeing you undressed. If she’s a good person she’ll be understanding and non-judgmental.
There are several male celebrities who are said to be small and whether the rumors are true or not I couldn’t say but Howard Sterns says he’s on the lower end of the spectrum and due to that has started a small penis contest. After viewing this video some men feel better about themselves either because they are bigger than these guys or because they realize they aren’t alone. Notice one fellow has had a girlfriend for eight years and is very small.
1st Annual Small Penis Contest by Babar007Search Amazon.com for tenga
First of all before you think of going under the knife you should do your research, look at pictures of the procedure before after and during surgery and talk to guys that have had it done. From what I’ve read it’s basically taking fat from other parts of your body and moving it to your penis. Fat can be absorbed and isn’t a permanent solution, it also doesn’t get hard in case you haven’t noticed. Taking a healthy part of your body and slicing it up doesn’t make sense to me.
Drugs, especially those found online, can be dangerous and you don’t want to put your health in danger trying to make your genitals bigger. Talk to a reputable physician before putting something harmful into your body.
So what do you do? For one thing you have to realize that most women are not that superficial. Yes, I realize women are more verbal about such things these days and some say all kinds of snide things about male genitalia but the size queens are few and far between they just have bigger mouths; they do not speak for all womankind.
Most men are average or below average; there aren’t enough big guys to go around. From what I’ve seen guys with large penises tend to have big egos to match and aren’t very nice people. Given the choice, I’d rather be with a great guy then a three-legged man.
There are many women who aren’t even that interested in sex so they certainly aren’t going to care. I’m not saying you have to give up sex, I’m just saying it’s not at the top of a lot of women’s priority list.
For many of us, the head on a man’s shoulders is much more important than the one between his legs. Women want a guy she can talk to. We don’t spend all of our time having sex and at some point you need a man who can carry an intelligent conversation.
It's not very common, but there is a phobia called phallaphobia: the fear of penises. If you have a small member these women may find you less threatening.
Lesbians don’t have a penis between them, they have sex and have been even before the invention of dildos. I realize a lesbian isn’t going to be interested in a man; I’m just giving you an example so you realize that a penis isn’t the only part of your anatomy used for sex.
A woman's most sensuous erogenous zone is her brain; if you stimulate her emotionally, make her feel sexy and good about her self you are halfway there.
Work on other techniques besides penetration and perhaps invest in sex toys. Many women enjoy oral sex; if you aren’t sure how to go about it or never tried it there are many books written on the subject. All women are different so experiment and you’ll find what works.
You don’t have to be rich either. There are dumb jokes circulating around about how a man must have a big endowment or checking account in order to attract a girl and that is wrong. The latest statistics show that many women are going for men who make less than they do. More women are going to college than men these days and they aren’t all going to find men who have bigger bank accounts. If you are only finding girls interested in how much money you make you need to find another location to look for dates. Those women aren’t worth knowing anyway.
Don’t watch porn. Men in porn are usually above average in size and watching those guys will just make you feel even less adequate. Find websites that only have nude women or at least amateur porn with regular sized fellows.
Don’t pick up women in bars. I’m not saying all women in clubs are bad but size queens tend to hang out there. You are better off looking for a decent girl who isn’t out trying on every guy in town and a bar isn’t the best place.
People who are only looking for another person based on their penis size or breast measurements are typically low class. Money doesn’t have anything to do with it; there are trashy rich people just like there are poor people with intelligence and morals. It doesn’t take very long to figure out which category a person fits into. Just walk away and ignore them. Trash should be left at the curb.
Don’t be afraid to date or take your clothes off. If you feel intimidated you can talk to her before hand. Tell her you aren’t as big as you would like and are nervous about her seeing you undressed. If she’s a good person she’ll be understanding and non-judgmental.
There are several male celebrities who are said to be small and whether the rumors are true or not I couldn’t say but Howard Sterns says he’s on the lower end of the spectrum and due to that has started a small penis contest. After viewing this video some men feel better about themselves either because they are bigger than these guys or because they realize they aren’t alone. Notice one fellow has had a girlfriend for eight years and is very small.
1st Annual Small Penis Contest by Babar007Search Amazon.com for tenga
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