Sexual Differences in the Male and Female Brain

Men and women are made differently mentally as well as physically. It’s not always easy to put our selves in the other sex’s shoes and understand how their brain works.

What arouses a woman is not the same as what turns a man on.

Men are visual:

For a man seeing a naked woman or even parts of her body gives him an instant erection. Having the lights on so he can see her undress, her lips on his flesh while feeling her body next to his, turns the heat up several degrees.

Men want to see you and see what is going on.

This is why pornography is sold mostly to men. They get off on pictures and scenes of sexual acts, bodies and ideas. Exaggerated positions, larger than life breasts and kinky love scenes turn him on but may not necessarily be something he wants to do with his partner. Simply seeing someone else doing them and fantasizing about the possibility is enough for most men.

The lingerie industry and plastic surgeons are making money because of men. Looks are very important to them.

Women are emotion driven:

We aren’t as interested in pictures as men. The female brain is turned on by words, conversation and how you feel about us. Romance and erotic novels are sold by the millions because women enjoy sexy words; they are the girlie equivalent of pornography.

Using our imagination to create what the man looks like, how he kisses her or how they make love is exciting to women. Romantic words, sweet endearments and acts of love go much further in wooing a lady. Sure we appreciate a good-looking man but that is secondary to what he has to say.

I’ve seen many times men online with pictures of themselves in shirtless poses, bathing suits or even nude. They think this will attract women, showing how good-looking they are. In the beginning, women are mostly concerned with your personality. Sure she wants to see a picture of your face and wants to know what you look like, but for the most part your words are what she is most interested in. If you don’t say what she wants to hear it isn’t going to happen.

All women are different, so don’t feel like you won’t be able to get a girl because you aren’t good with flowery prose or your vocabulary is limited. Somewhere out there is a woman who likes what you have to offer, just be yourself and as long as you aren’t rude it will happen.

Some women let themselves go and think that a man should accept them for who they are and not care about what is on the outside. They are only fooling themselves.