Sex videos are for visual effect.
They show positions that make it easier for the viewer to see what is going on and because of that there is very little or no clitoral stimulation. Young guys just starting to experiment with copulation imitate what they see in these clips trying to relive his fantasy. He may be getting off but his girlfriend probably isn’t.
A large percentage of pornography videos are doggy style/rear entry or with gaps between the man and woman because these positions film best. A small percentage of women can orgasm this way, but most do not. You see women have two main “on” buttons, one is her clitoris and the other is her brain. If both aren’t engaged during copulation she’s not going to orgasm, it’s as simple as that.
Some of you may think your girl is getting off during these positions but you also have to consider another important fact you might not have thought of: most women fake orgasms. They are doing it to boost their guy’s ego or to hurry the process along, it’s a bad idea women shouldn’t do it but many do anyway.
Even though some people think missionary style is boring it is the best position for a woman to orgasm. Most other positions don’t even touch the little man in the boat (that’s a slang term for her clitoris). I’m not saying do missionary all the time; change it up. Do what turns you on for a bit and end with missionary.
Just in case I have a reader who doesn’t know what the missionary position is, here’s a video explaining it. This video is meant to help couples that are trying to conceive but it is also believed that a woman’s orgasms are directly connected to her ability to become pregnant. Of course if you use proper contraceptives this won’t happen.
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Women are all different and we all have unique things that make us wet. Talk to her about what she likes to do. I think you might be surprised some of the things she will tell you. If she’s too shy and doesn’t want to say, have her think about it and write them down when she has time.
Making love is a give and take activity, unfortunately, pornography tends to mostly show what a man enjoys and not always what women find exciting or sexy. That isn’t to say you won’t find a woman who gets aroused by giving you fellatio. Some of us find if very erotic.
Pornography shouldn’t take the place of sex.
Unless of course you are a priest or away from your significant other for extended periods of time, too much porn can be detrimental to your sex life.
A man can get used to ejaculating with his hand and when he couples with a partner he might find he has trouble having an orgasm. A hand is very different from a vagina.
There have been instances where a man became addicted to porn and had trouble with relationships. While some might need to find relief without a partner, most humans are social by nature and need an intimate relationship with another person.
If you find you prefer to be alone instead of being with people you might want to consider counseling. Some alone time is good but being in solitude all the time is not healthy.
Some porn scenes are harmful.
I have no idea why anyone would find eating feces arousing but it is a new trend that is not only disgusting but also harmful. You can get e coli as well as other bacterial infections that can cause kidney failure and death.
Don’t imitate everything you see in sex films without first making sure they are safe.
Anal sex has become quite popular in recent years, I suspect mainly due to women not practicing kegel exercises. If more women strengthened their pelvic walls perhaps men wouldn’t seek a tighter orifice.
The rectum was never intended to be a sex organ and if you talk to older gay men who were bottoms (took it in the rear) for a number of years they will tell you the medical complications they have had due to this practice. You can suffer hemorrhoids and rectal prolapse. Read up on these two health conditions and you’ll see they are quite serious.
There are many more sex acts that are also dangerous such as erotic asphyxiation. Many have died from this practice including the actor David Carradine.
I won’t go into all of them but do check out your ideas before trying them on another person.
I apologize for this woman's screechy voice, you can mute the video and play your favorite music if you want.
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